Out Of Body Ecstasy Sex
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Dream Sex, Disappearing Act and New Sex Toy Store!
Dream sex -- OMG I love it! Seriously. Even when life has me so damn busy that I forget not only my phone number but my last name (yes - both happened), I can still enjoy some dream orgasmic bliss.
Vincent stopped by for a dream encounter. I happened to be in an outdoor market - looking over some fruit and vegetables. Reminded me of the Santa Monica farmer's market. I'm looking for a good cantaloupe when I hear a male voice say -- give it a gentle squeeze. I look over and there is my 6'4" dark-eyed Vincent. A sight for sore eyes.
Before I could say anything - his lips crushed down upon mine. He tasted like a combo of beer, peanuts and cig smoke - which to me I found very appealing. His tongue darted around my mouth in a haphazard pattern without rhyme or reason. The long kisses felt hungry, almost primal in nature. He had one hand on my back, another held my face. At this point I had no idea what I did with the cantaloupe I had in my hand. The noise of the busy streets & shops faded.
Next I heard falling water. Vincent and I were naked, on a rock ledge, behind the falls - he standing, me leaning back on the rock ledge with me feet locked behind his upper back. How we went from being fully clothed and kissing to being butt naked with him thrusting in me - is beyond me. But he felt sooooooo good. We fit together like a hand and a leather glove - tight and form fitting.
As we both rose to climax - he was commenting how he was floating out of his body - while I felt the same. Simultaneously it's exhilarating and nauseas - the feeling of separating from your body. He said - I can't keep it together. At the time I thought he was talking about not being able to last longer before orgasm. Which was fine - because I couldn't hold back either. At the moment of orgasm I felt myself falling onto my bed. I woke up with that initial "thud" when I landed. I then realized that when he said - I can't keep it together - he was talking about keeping our astral bodies in the dream world and away from our physical bodies. As soon as the physical body climaxes, it wakes you up, bringing you (obviously) out of the dream. Vincent wanted to "keep it together" because of the amazing feelings & emotions we were sharing. For minutes after waking up I could feel his lips on mine - him in me. I held onto those feelings for as long as I could. As soon as the faded - I rolled over and went back to sleep.
I know I've pulled a disappearing act - and I'm sorry. Time just isn't on my side right now. College is going well -- I'm part of a research team in the psych dept which is great but time consuming.
When my radio show "The Passion Zone" and podcast "Wake up Your Orgasm" both ended I took down my sex toy store. Last week I decided to rebuild it and have much more toys, machines, oils and more. The Passion Zone: http://www.thepassionzone.com/ is now back with a HUGE assortment of fun items. No worries - if you order from the store (and I hope you do as it will help me make it financially through college) there is a 3rd party doing the transactions. I have no idea who orders what unless they come to me with a problem (so far - knock on wood - there hasn't been any).
Eventually I will add sex toy home parties to that site and will conduct them in my area (Wooster, Akron, Canton, Cleveland). If you want to know more info on that and/or get signed up for a party (where the hostess of course gets gifts) - email me.
Sexual Energy Tip:
Take 6 Carnelian and 9 Quartz Crystals and place them around your bed - alternating stones as you go (C - Q - C - Q). This gives the occupants of the bed extra physical sexual energy and/or can lead to awesome dream and astral sex. Clean the stones once a month by passing them through the smoke of Frankincense. If the smell of Frankincense makes you ill - run the stones under cool water for a few minutes each - then dry them off with a white towel.
If you missed the Universal Light Expo Oct 10/11 - we had a great time! The OBE sex class went fabo in the 50 min I had to give the class. Next year I will be talking about sexual energy - to improve your physical sex life.
Happy OBE'ing!
Allie ;)
Vincent stopped by for a dream encounter. I happened to be in an outdoor market - looking over some fruit and vegetables. Reminded me of the Santa Monica farmer's market. I'm looking for a good cantaloupe when I hear a male voice say -- give it a gentle squeeze. I look over and there is my 6'4" dark-eyed Vincent. A sight for sore eyes.
Before I could say anything - his lips crushed down upon mine. He tasted like a combo of beer, peanuts and cig smoke - which to me I found very appealing. His tongue darted around my mouth in a haphazard pattern without rhyme or reason. The long kisses felt hungry, almost primal in nature. He had one hand on my back, another held my face. At this point I had no idea what I did with the cantaloupe I had in my hand. The noise of the busy streets & shops faded.
Next I heard falling water. Vincent and I were naked, on a rock ledge, behind the falls - he standing, me leaning back on the rock ledge with me feet locked behind his upper back. How we went from being fully clothed and kissing to being butt naked with him thrusting in me - is beyond me. But he felt sooooooo good. We fit together like a hand and a leather glove - tight and form fitting.
As we both rose to climax - he was commenting how he was floating out of his body - while I felt the same. Simultaneously it's exhilarating and nauseas - the feeling of separating from your body. He said - I can't keep it together. At the time I thought he was talking about not being able to last longer before orgasm. Which was fine - because I couldn't hold back either. At the moment of orgasm I felt myself falling onto my bed. I woke up with that initial "thud" when I landed. I then realized that when he said - I can't keep it together - he was talking about keeping our astral bodies in the dream world and away from our physical bodies. As soon as the physical body climaxes, it wakes you up, bringing you (obviously) out of the dream. Vincent wanted to "keep it together" because of the amazing feelings & emotions we were sharing. For minutes after waking up I could feel his lips on mine - him in me. I held onto those feelings for as long as I could. As soon as the faded - I rolled over and went back to sleep.
I know I've pulled a disappearing act - and I'm sorry. Time just isn't on my side right now. College is going well -- I'm part of a research team in the psych dept which is great but time consuming.
When my radio show "The Passion Zone" and podcast "Wake up Your Orgasm" both ended I took down my sex toy store. Last week I decided to rebuild it and have much more toys, machines, oils and more. The Passion Zone: http://www.thepassionzone.com/ is now back with a HUGE assortment of fun items. No worries - if you order from the store (and I hope you do as it will help me make it financially through college) there is a 3rd party doing the transactions. I have no idea who orders what unless they come to me with a problem (so far - knock on wood - there hasn't been any).
Eventually I will add sex toy home parties to that site and will conduct them in my area (Wooster, Akron, Canton, Cleveland). If you want to know more info on that and/or get signed up for a party (where the hostess of course gets gifts) - email me.
Sexual Energy Tip:
Take 6 Carnelian and 9 Quartz Crystals and place them around your bed - alternating stones as you go (C - Q - C - Q). This gives the occupants of the bed extra physical sexual energy and/or can lead to awesome dream and astral sex. Clean the stones once a month by passing them through the smoke of Frankincense. If the smell of Frankincense makes you ill - run the stones under cool water for a few minutes each - then dry them off with a white towel.
If you missed the Universal Light Expo Oct 10/11 - we had a great time! The OBE sex class went fabo in the 50 min I had to give the class. Next year I will be talking about sexual energy - to improve your physical sex life.
Happy OBE'ing!
Allie ;)
Labels: Allie, dream sex, obe sex, sex toys, Sexual Energy Tip, The Passion Zone, Universal Light Expo
Monday, December 22, 2008
Adult Toys, Oil And Telepathic Sex!
Out of body sex - I rolled out of bed today thinking about the subject and I've been talking about it ever since. Not that I mind talking about OBE sex - or heck - sex. But today seemed to have an overflow of questions and situations. I've been working with a couple of people today on with their Sexual Advice Plans and a Sexual Coaching client. The main theme that is running though these clients is that they all have a need to use sex toys/oils during telepathic sex, but when they try to use the toy during the sexual connection, the connection is lost or at the least interrupted.
Why is that? Because they are using the toys as an add on and not as part of the actual experience. They have to take a "time out" while they position and/or insert the toy or put on the oil and that's what yanks them out of the connection. Using toys like this during a fantasy also interrupts the flow of things.
So what's one to do?
How can you have telepathic sex or a fantasy and not lose the rhythm when you introduce sex toys into the picture?
Simple. Be prepared.
During physical sex, would you stop mid-go in order to grab a condom, unwrap it and put it on? No - you would be prepared and have that baby either out of the wrapper already (and sitting near by for quick application) or you'd at least have the package open and within reach. Because come on - if you're not prepared- it interrupts the flow. Maybe that's just me? But I doubt it.
If you are going to use oils during OBE sex or a fantasy: put the oil on her fingertips before the connection happens. It also helps if you are already naked. When the moment arrives during the connection where the oil needs applied - let your fingers do the walking. No interruptions with getting the oil on your fingers - no bumps in the orgasmic flow.
Now if you want to use sex toys - this is really where a male or female fuck machine (an actual machine, not a person) comes in handy. All you would have to do is have it in position and press a button when ready. But it's a hefty price tag and precisely why I don't own one -- yet. So anyways - normal sex toys.....
Have vibrators on and position before the connection starts - this also goes for dildos, anal plugs and Fleshlights (or any male masturbation toy). Nipple clips, nipple suckers - have in your hands. When the time is right, you'll be able to use the sex toys without the an interruption with the flow.
Need to add lube before you use the toy? In one hand have the lube on your fingers already - in the other hand have your sex toy. When the time is right - apply the lube, then use the toy. Bam - boom - just like that.
Give it a try today and drop me an email on how it turns out: gypsyadvice (at) yahoo (dot) com
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)
Why is that? Because they are using the toys as an add on and not as part of the actual experience. They have to take a "time out" while they position and/or insert the toy or put on the oil and that's what yanks them out of the connection. Using toys like this during a fantasy also interrupts the flow of things.
So what's one to do?
How can you have telepathic sex or a fantasy and not lose the rhythm when you introduce sex toys into the picture?
Simple. Be prepared.
During physical sex, would you stop mid-go in order to grab a condom, unwrap it and put it on? No - you would be prepared and have that baby either out of the wrapper already (and sitting near by for quick application) or you'd at least have the package open and within reach. Because come on - if you're not prepared- it interrupts the flow. Maybe that's just me? But I doubt it.
If you are going to use oils during OBE sex or a fantasy: put the oil on her fingertips before the connection happens. It also helps if you are already naked. When the moment arrives during the connection where the oil needs applied - let your fingers do the walking. No interruptions with getting the oil on your fingers - no bumps in the orgasmic flow.
Now if you want to use sex toys - this is really where a male or female fuck machine (an actual machine, not a person) comes in handy. All you would have to do is have it in position and press a button when ready. But it's a hefty price tag and precisely why I don't own one -- yet. So anyways - normal sex toys.....
Have vibrators on and position before the connection starts - this also goes for dildos, anal plugs and Fleshlights (or any male masturbation toy). Nipple clips, nipple suckers - have in your hands. When the time is right, you'll be able to use the sex toys without the an interruption with the flow.
Need to add lube before you use the toy? In one hand have the lube on your fingers already - in the other hand have your sex toy. When the time is right - apply the lube, then use the toy. Bam - boom - just like that.
Give it a try today and drop me an email on how it turns out: gypsyadvice (at) yahoo (dot) com
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)
Labels: Allie, obe sex, sex, sex tip, sex toys, telepathic sex
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Out Of Body Ecstasy Newsletter
Yep - you heard correctly. I'm going to be launching an "Orgasm U" newsletter. I haven't figured out yet if it will be weekly or bi-weekly, but I'm toying with the idea that it will contain:
Weekly Sex Position
Weekly Sex Toy Review
OBE Sex Story not found here on the blog
Sexual Energy Exercise
OBE Sex Tip
My goal is to see how the newsletter does and then from there add on a radio show. I'm also working on a in person workshop.
Stay Tuned!
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)
Weekly Sex Position
Weekly Sex Toy Review
OBE Sex Story not found here on the blog
Sexual Energy Exercise
OBE Sex Tip
My goal is to see how the newsletter does and then from there add on a radio show. I'm also working on a in person workshop.
Stay Tuned!
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)
Labels: Allie, astral sex, dream sex, OBE Newsletter, obe sex, sex tip, sex toys, telepathic sex
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
Astral Sex, Bill And The Moon!
After being on Psychiconair.com this morning as Maria Shaw's guest, and talking about astral sex, I knew that I had to go do some traveling. I rearranged a few things on my schedule and off I went. When I separated my body, it was very bright around me - almost as if I had a spotlight shining right in my eyes and I couldn't see. I knew better than to turn around and look at my physical body - so I thought about the ocean -- and there I was.
However, I wasn't alone. I looked over and there was Bill. I was surprised to say the least. He said - I figured this is where you would go. I didn't bother even asking how he knew I was even going to astral travel. He held out his hand and I took it. We immediately went to the moon. I found this to be very odd since I can't even remember going to the moon before. So here we are, two energy masses floating on the moon. Bill's right hand turned into what I would describe as a clit licking sex toy. But instead of placing it where one would think to - on my clit, he slid it inside my energy body. It was such an odd, yet exciting feeling. It felt like someone was stroking my energy body from the inside out. It was highly erotic and tantalizing. I could feel myself getting lighter - I thought that I couldn't take it any more. That's all I had to do was think about it, that the excitement was getting to me - because Bill stepped into me. At that time it felt like I was going down the largest roller coaster in the world, in the front seat with no seat belt on and at the same time someone shoving a coffee IV into my arm. It was almost too much -- almost.
Right when it felt like I was bursting free - otherwise known as an astral orgasm - I shot back to my body. I found myself not quite finished -- I was very thankful for my previous job as a sex toy tester - as I had plenty of items to choose from!
It's been a good day:)
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)
However, I wasn't alone. I looked over and there was Bill. I was surprised to say the least. He said - I figured this is where you would go. I didn't bother even asking how he knew I was even going to astral travel. He held out his hand and I took it. We immediately went to the moon. I found this to be very odd since I can't even remember going to the moon before. So here we are, two energy masses floating on the moon. Bill's right hand turned into what I would describe as a clit licking sex toy. But instead of placing it where one would think to - on my clit, he slid it inside my energy body. It was such an odd, yet exciting feeling. It felt like someone was stroking my energy body from the inside out. It was highly erotic and tantalizing. I could feel myself getting lighter - I thought that I couldn't take it any more. That's all I had to do was think about it, that the excitement was getting to me - because Bill stepped into me. At that time it felt like I was going down the largest roller coaster in the world, in the front seat with no seat belt on and at the same time someone shoving a coffee IV into my arm. It was almost too much -- almost.
Right when it felt like I was bursting free - otherwise known as an astral orgasm - I shot back to my body. I found myself not quite finished -- I was very thankful for my previous job as a sex toy tester - as I had plenty of items to choose from!
It's been a good day:)
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)
Labels: Allie, astral sex, obe sex, sex, sex toys
Friday, March 28, 2008
Strawberries, Sex Toys And Telepathic Sex!
Sex...the final frontier. Or so it seems in Allie's world;) With some of the emails I get I wonder if I've set out on an exploration that not many have had the good fortune to discover. I'm convinced that one of my life paths is to teach people how to have better sex lives by utilizing OBE sex. That's why - I think that I help start Whispers Media, the erotic audio place for women - or why I wrote the sex blogs, tested sex toys, wrote erotica and chatted on the L Word every Monday. Because of this - I have no problem talking to people about orgasms, oral sex, penis, vagina, foreplay, sexual positions and the whole she-bang:) My hope is that through this blog, upcoming book, maybe a podcast/radio show - and weekend workshops - that I can help others.
Keep the questions coming via this blog or my email.
What applies in the physical reality also applies to the OBE reality. The fun tips, sexual positions and even sex toys can be used in the OBE sex world. For example this is what happened with Will and I once during telepathic sex:
I could smell strawberries -- I looked down and Will was applying a strawberry scented warming oil to my clit and outer lips. The warming sensation was so real-like that in the physical reality I had to check to see if I really had any on. Will gently rubbed the oil in, down and around - careful not to get any in my vagina. The small movements he had, coupled with the oil - had me wanting more sooner rather than later. He commented that he had something that he wanted to try. I watched with interest as he took the cock ring and turned on the vibrating bullet. A smiled creped across my face as I watched him slide it on his cock.
I could feel the vibration of the cock ring against my clit as he thrust. My physical body responded to the telepathic moves as if he were right here with me. In the telepathic connection, my hands grabbed his waist and urged him to move faster, but he wouldn't have any of that - he wanted to take his time and savor the moment. Just when I thought neither one of us could handle it any longer -- the orgasmic climax was priceless.
So -- rule of thumb -- if you like to use something in the physical reality - you can take it with you in the OBE reality!
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie ;)
Keep the questions coming via this blog or my email.
What applies in the physical reality also applies to the OBE reality. The fun tips, sexual positions and even sex toys can be used in the OBE sex world. For example this is what happened with Will and I once during telepathic sex:
I could smell strawberries -- I looked down and Will was applying a strawberry scented warming oil to my clit and outer lips. The warming sensation was so real-like that in the physical reality I had to check to see if I really had any on. Will gently rubbed the oil in, down and around - careful not to get any in my vagina. The small movements he had, coupled with the oil - had me wanting more sooner rather than later. He commented that he had something that he wanted to try. I watched with interest as he took the cock ring and turned on the vibrating bullet. A smiled creped across my face as I watched him slide it on his cock.
I could feel the vibration of the cock ring against my clit as he thrust. My physical body responded to the telepathic moves as if he were right here with me. In the telepathic connection, my hands grabbed his waist and urged him to move faster, but he wouldn't have any of that - he wanted to take his time and savor the moment. Just when I thought neither one of us could handle it any longer -- the orgasmic climax was priceless.
So -- rule of thumb -- if you like to use something in the physical reality - you can take it with you in the OBE reality!
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie ;)
Labels: Allie, obe sex, oil, sex, sex toys, telepathic sex
