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Out Of Body Ecstasy Sex
OBE - astral sex, dream sex, telepathic sex - out of body experiences to enhance your sex life.
During OBE your physical body can feel the touch of your
sexual partner, can smell their scent, hear their voice, taste their body. How
can this help to enhance your sex life? It's a known fact that a healthy
sex life translates into a healthier, happier physical existence as it works to
lower blood pressure, lose weight and is a good workout for your heart -- not to
mention that it energizes your energy fields.
Life is busy, overscheduled, and stressful making it so that you may not always be up for sex. However if you don't use your sex drive - you lose it according to leading sexpert, Dr. Pepper Schwartz, which she talks about in her podcast: How To Be A Good Lover.
OBE turns you on and tunes you into your sexuality. Upon waking from your vivid dream, returning from an astral visit or coming out of your day dream, if you have a partner they can enjoy the benefits of your exploration. If you do not have a partner, you will benefit from exploring your own body. If you did not have an orgasm during the OBE, your physical body will be so turned on that you will have to DO SOMETHING to experience a sexual release.
It is important to note here that when you are engaged in OBE sex that "sex" does not have to occur. You can merge your energy fields and simply enjoy one another by desiring, loving and energizing. It's your energy and you can do whatever you wish to do with it. No two people experience something the same way and this includes OBE sex.
OBE is not a form of cheating on your partner as it would be during cyber or phone sex. Why is that? Because with phone or cyber sex, you are turning away from your partner and inducing into self-satisfaction with another physical human. With OBE you are not with a physical human but with a sphere of energy and upon the ending of your experience, you can turn to your partner and have awesome sex. So with OBE you are contributing to the relationship, not distracting from it.
The sections below on Telepathic Sex, Dream Sex and Astral Sex are meant to give you a basic overview only in order to get started in your sexual exploration.
Telepathic Sex
Have you ever had such an intense day dream that it caused you to become sexually aroused or to experience an orgasm?
Telepathic sex is the easiest to master out of the 3 forms of OBE.
With telepathic sex, you are using your mind in tandem with your energy body and imagination. Your energy connects to another's energy, your brain waves connect with another's brain wave and by engaging your imagination, in your minds eye you can see and feel the sexual act taking place. Think of this as real-time sex without the physical merging.
With telepathic sex, the odds of having an orgasm are very high as none
of your energy bodies (astral, mental, emotional - etc...) are separate from
your physical body. Can you tell if you make the connection with another person
or if it is just a fantasy? Yes you can. How? Just as you can tell with a
telepathic communication - you have that zing of energy and a warm flow over
your body (other people have been known to get a headache or tremble) when you
have that telepathic connection. If this factor is missing in the telepathic
sex, then you are simply having a fantasy and not the telepathic sex.
Allie likes to think of telepathic sex as an intense day dream. Out of the 3 -
Allie likes telepathic sex the best - only because you can have a real-time
orgasm:) And - you can remember most, if not all, of the encounter.
Telepathic Sex: What, When and How
What:
It has been said that the mind is the largest and most important erogenous zone on a human being. Because this is based on fact and not fiction, it is conceivable that two people can connect via the minds and turn each other on to such a state that an orgasm is achievable from both partners.
When:
Anytime, anywhere - on a plane, in the shower, in your bed, standing in line
-- there are no limits to where it can take place! However, some people find it
easier to achieve (at least at first) in a quiet environment.
How:
Very basic steps:
- *You and your partner set up a time and/or day you wish to have telepathic sex.
- Decide on who will be the instigator - who will be the one to start the session.
- Several minutes before the prearranged time, make sure that neither of you
will have any disturbances. No phones, TV or email!
Quiet your mind. If you find that you are having distractions from the day, simply imagine a feather and sweep the thoughts out of your mind. - Imagine your partner in either a predetermined location (like your
favorite place for sex - the beach, the shower, hot tub or in a four-poster
bed). If you are the instigator, see your partner standing, back to you.
Approach them and stop a few inches away.
If you are not the instigator, then imagine yourself standing there - waiting. - Each of you will be able to feel the other person's presence and the energy involved. That is why it is important that one have their back to the other. When that "feel" is made about the other person, you know that you have a solid connection. Once the person standing senses the instigator behind them, they should turn around.
- Imagine yourselves having foreplay and sex (if you wish) with one another. Make sure you can absorb and feel the emotions/sensations associated with connection.
- Allow yourselves to be in the moment. You will be able to feel their lips on
yours, hands all over each other's body and intercourse.
*NOTE: If you are without a partner, in step 1 think about the positive qualities you want in a sexual partner (or the person you would like to surprise) and think about those qualities/person.
This is something that can take some practice to get it right. But it is very achievable to anyone who wishes to experiment with this alternative form of sex. Just do not give up.
Can you have telepathic sex with someone without everything being prearranged?
Sure you can - just focus on that person. But just as in your physical life, in the OBE (Out of Body
Experiences) realm, respect does apply.
Dream Sex
Do you remember a time or times in your life where you have awoken from a vivid dream to be so sexually turned on that you had to find a release in order to fall back to sleep?
Dream sex is the second easiest to master out of the 3 forms of OBE. After all, everyone dreams whether or not they remember or not.
With dream sex, you are asleep with your astral body separating from your physical body and then off into the dreamscape. Normally when you dream, your subconscious absorbs the adventures and keeps them stored in your out-of-the-memory where they can filter in little by little into your consciousness. Everyone can learn how to Lucid Dream (have conscious control of your dreams while you are dreaming) and engage in dream sex with the person or persons of choice. But you do not have to know how to Lucid Dream in order to engage in dream sex!
Dream sex is like astral sex, but you are asleep. With dream sex, the odds of having an orgasm are at medium strength with the odds of you waking up sexually excited hits high marks. In fact, the odds of you not waking up needing a sexual release are very slim indeed. This is when if you have a partner that they can benefit from your excessive sexual stimulation. Or if you are single, that you can jump into solo exploration and have a very exhilarating release. But either way, you will have to find a way to have an orgasm if you expect to either fall back to sleep or get up and go about your day.
Dream Sex: What, When and How
What:
Everyone dreams - that's a fact. Without dreaming, we would literally go insane as dream time is our way of dumping out excess baggage, exploring new frontiers, engaging in fantasy and visiting loved ones - both deceased and alive. With dream sex you are having an energetic sexually experience with another dreamer which may lead to a real-time orgasm in either party but for sure will leave you both very sexually turned on upon waking up - so much so that you will need to have an orgasm to fall back to sleep or continue your day.
When:
Any place where you are fast asleep.
How:
Very basic steps:
- You and your partner set up a time to engage in dream sex.
- *You two need to create the setting where you will meet. Make sure you get the details down - in fact, write them down if you need to.
- At the prearranged time, lie down to fall asleep. Quiet your mind. If you find that you are having distractions from the day, simply imagine a feather and sweep the thoughts out of your mind.
- Imagine your partner in the predetermined location. Your partner and the location has to be forefront in your mind as you drift off to sleep. Keep repeating the details to yourself over and over and sleep overtakes you.
- You and your partner will meet up and engage in the sexually experience.
- You may want to set an alarm for 30 - 40 minutes so that you remember enough of your dream sex to write it down in your journal or notebook.
- If your partner is lying next to you - then you two can enjoy the physical fruits of your dream experience. If your partner is in another location, enjoy yourself as you remember the experience.
*NOTE: If you are without a partner, in step 2 think about the positive qualities you want in a sexual partner and think about those qualities as you fall asleep.
Can you have dream sex with someone without everything being prearranged? Sure you can - just focus on that person. But just as in your physical life, in the OBE (Out of Body Experiences) realm, respect does apply.
Astral Sex
Care to learn how to experience the volcanic eruption of an energetic orgasm?
Astral sex is the hardest to master out of the 3 forms of OBE.
With astral sex, you are awake with your astral body separating from your physical body and then off into the astral planes. In order to remember your astral travels, you have to learn how to transfer consciousness from your physical body to your astral body. Two of the best people Allie knows that can help you achieve this is:
Robert Bruce: http://www.astraldynamics.com/
William Buhlman: http://www.out-of-body.com/
Astral sex is like dream sex, but you are awake. Like with dream sex, the odds of having an orgasm are mid range as your astral energy body is separate from your physical body. However, after you return, the odds of you being sexually excited is very high. In fact, the odds of you not coming back and needing a sexual release are nil to none. This is when if you have a partner that they can benefit from your excessive sexual stimulation. Or if you are single, that you can jump into solo exploration and have a very exhilarating release.
Astral Sex: What, When and How
What:
To become sexually aroused and engage in energetic sex with another person's energy. In the astral state, energy can be manipulated to a point where it feels and looks like physical body parts are merging -- but they are only energy and not actual physical parts. What is actually happening is the chakra's are opening, expanding and engulfing you both into one energized bubble. This can lead to an orgasm in the physical body. In most cases a person would return from their astral travel and be so sexual turned on that they would have to take care of it upon returning and it would be a MUST to take care of, this isn't something that you can walk off. If they are involved with a flesh and blood partner - the partner benefits from this astral turn on by engaging in physical sex with their partner.
When:
Any place where you will you can get comfortable and not be disturbed.
How:
Very basic steps:
Astral travel on its own can take a while to master. If you do not succeed, try - try again.
- You and your partner set up a time to engage in astral sex.
- *You two need to create the setting where you will meet. Make sure you get the details down - in fact, write them down if you need to.
- Make sure you will not be disturbed. Turn off phone, computer and TV. You may have soft music playing if you find it helps to relax you.
- Lie down, relax and close your eyes.
- There are four basic ways for you to part your astral body from your physical body:
A) Imagine an exact double of you standing at the foot of the bed looking away. You would see the back of your head/body from where you are lying on the bed.
B) Imagine an exact double of you rolling out of your body.
C) Imagine an exact double of you exiting your body out of the top of your head.
D) Ask for help from an guide or angel and extend out an imaginary hand for them to grab.
*NOTE: If you are without a partner, in step 2 think about the positive qualities you want in a sexual partner and think about those qualities after your astral body separate from your physical body.
Can you have astral sex with someone without everything being prearranged? Sure you can - just focus on that person. But just as in your physical life, in the OBE (Out of Body Experiences) realm, respect does apply.